My writer husband's favorite nickname for me was Ernestina, so in my three-book memoir, he is Ernie. Book One's Part One, in 77 chapters, follows our 40-year marriage. Book One's Part Two, in 177 chapters, begins shortly after Ernie dies and continues until the first anniversary of his death. Book Two, in 325 chapters, ends on the second anniversary of Ernie's death. I publish a chapter a day and hope these chapters will help you avoid the mistakes we made, unknowingly, in our marriage. As Ernie once said: "We hurt each other without meaning to. We never revealed our real selves to each other."